A woman’s $exual desires naturally fluctuate over the years, it can be very difficult to tell exactly what is currently affecting your partner’s $ex drive. So if your woman wants to have $ex less often, here is a collection of issues that may be affecting her $exual desire.
Confidence issues along with poor self-image pose major hindrances to a healthy $ex life. Women with a poor self image usually want the lights out and won’t fully undress in front of you. It can take a long time for a woman to get comfortable in her own skin, so the best thing you can do is remind her how of beautiful she is and make her feel $exy.
Birth control pills prevent ovulation, which is the peak of a woman’s fertility, and therefore natural $exual desire. Furthermore, the lack of fluctuating hormones and chemical changes means a woman’s $ex drive can be leveled completely, meaning that if her libido is already low, it could just stay that way.
Her anxiety can also have an adverse effect on your $ex life. Anxiety can be caused by various reasons such as abuse, rape or some deep traumatic experience that your girlfriend may have suffered as a child or as an adolescent. It’s not easy in the beginning, but with good communication, the situation can eventually be handled and resolved.
Many prescription medications–including some antidepressants and anti-seizure medications–are notorious libido killers.
Excessive consumption of alcohol and street drugs may make your partner feel amorous, but they can also spoil her $ex drive. Most illegal substances are known to cause $exual dysfunction in women, while certain ones actually dry the vagina (and mouth) up.
Pregnancy, pain during $ex or an inability to orgasm, arthritis, cancer, diabetes, high blood pressure or coronary artery diseases are some physical causes that women may experience which can lower their $ex drive.
Her diminished interest in $ex is one of many symptoms that can develop as a result of increased psychological stress, especially if she has financial or work stress.
For many women, emotional closeness is an essential prelude to $exual intimacy. So your emotional unavailability coupled with poor communication of her $exual needs and preferences can be a major factor in her low $ex drive.
Author: Abiola Stephen (Speak2AbiolasStephen)