There are many ways to ask a guy out, But to ensure that it works on a guy, you have to remember to never make it obvious that you have a huge crush on him.
Let a guy know that you’re interested in him.
But don’t let him know you need him. Not at least until he starts reciprocating your move.
A guy may want to ask you out, but when he realizes that you like him a lot more than he likes you, he’d start to take it easy just to see what you’d do about it.
And that’s something you should never forget.
How to get a guy to ask you out
There are two things a girl has to do to wow a guy and get him to ask her out.
You have to drop a few signs.
And you have to become desirable in his eyes.
The little signs that matter
Drop a few signs so he starts to look at you as a dating potential.
Sometimes, a guy may assume you’d never be interested in being anything more than friends with him.
To help him see the dating side in you, here are a few tips you could use.
#1 Get your friend to call you both a couple
When you’re having a fun chat with the guy you like, ask a trusted girl friend to join both of you in the conversation. It would be preferable if there are other friends around too. And out of the blue, let your trusted friend comment to no one in particular in the group and say something like, “these two make a cute couple, don’t they?”
It’s an awkward statement, and one that’ll definitely lead to a few laughs around the group. But all said and done, no matter how embarrassed you pretend to be or how he behaves, the thought will still linger in his head.
#2 Using a friend to tease him
Now don’t use all these strategies all the time. Just use a few that you’re comfortable with.
The next time you’re having a conversation with this guy, tell your friend beforehand to butt into the conversation. Ask your friend to tell the guy that it’s so obvious he likes you, and ask him when he’s ever going work up his courage to ask you out?! Of course, she has to make it seem like a joke, and yet, pose it as a serious question.
It’s straightforward and easy, and yet, you didn’t really ask him out yourself. If he does like you, he’ll use this opportunity to ask you out himself.